build relationship skills

Therapy for Relationships and Marriages
in NY & CA

Learn about your patterns, how they shape your connections and how therapy might improve your relationships.

We specialize in evidence-based therapy for relationships and marriages

Does This Sound Like You?

  • Do you find yourself feeling misunderstood, unheard, or disconnected in your relationships?

  • Do you work hard to keep the peace, often putting others’ needs ahead of your own—only to feel drained and unappreciated?

  • Are you and your partner preparing for marriage and want to build a strong foundation for your future together?

  • Do you have questions about long-term compatibility with your partner and wish to explore important topics with a skilled moderator?

  • Are you exploring non-monogamy or polyamory and need guidance on communication, trust, and boundaries?

  • Do you find yourself moving through a tumultuous cycle of intimacy-seeking and withdrawal?

Do you experience?

  • Struggles with people-pleasing and difficulty setting boundaries

  • Fear of conflict or rejection 

  • Patterns of codependency or feeling overly responsible for others

  • Trouble trusting others due to past relational wounds or betrayals

  • Anxiety or overthinking in relationships

  • Difficulty expressing needs, emotions, or expectations

Our Relationship Therapy Expertise

Premarital therapy

Therapy for couples who are preparing for marriage and/or wishing to assess for long term compatibility.

therapy for high conflict couples

Therapy for couples who are struggling with differences in attachment needs.

therapy for couples exploring non-monogamy

Therapy for couples seeking support with building trust and compersion

Co-parenting adults

Couples or adults who are navigating difficulties with parenting a highly sensitive or high needs child.

What can you expect from relationship therapy?

It’s normal to be unsure about whether therapy is right for you. Below are some commonly asked questions about relationship-oriented treatment that might help you in making your decision.

    • Struggles with people-pleasing and difficulty setting boundaries

    • Fear of conflict or rejection 

    • Patterns of codependency or feeling overly responsible for others

    • Trouble trusting others due to past relational wounds or betrayals

    • Anxiety or overthinking in relationships

    • Difficulty expressing needs, emotions, or expectations

    • Navigating major relationship transitions, including engagement and marriage

    • Exploring non-monogamy and polyamory with clear communication and healthy boundaries

    • Couples with differences in attachment styles/love language 

    • Co-parenting dynamics, whether with a current or former partner, to create a supportive environment for children

  • Therapy is a collaborative and supportive space where we uncover the patterns that may be keeping you stuck. Through our work together, you will:

    • Explore past experiences and understand how they shape your current relationship dynamics

    • Learn to recognize and shift unhelpful thought patterns and behaviors

    • Practice boundary-setting and assertive communication in a way that feels natural

    • Strengthen your ability to self-soothe and manage emotional triggers

    • Build deeper self-awareness, self-compassion, and relational confidence

    • Gain skills to navigate marriage preparation, ethical non-monogamy, or co-parenting challenges with intention and clarity’

    Read more here about the treatment process.

Meet our Relationship Therapists

  • Janine Cheng, LCSW

    FOUNDER + CLINICAL DIRECTOR

After Relationship-Oriented Therapy

Many patients complete relationship therapy in 15 - 20 sessions & report:

  • More security and confidence in relationships

  • Clarity and confidence in communicating needs

  • Greater ease when navigating conflict

  • Meaningful connections without feeling drained or overextended

  • Letting go of people-pleasing tendencies

  • A greater sense of emotional balance and self-acceptance

  • A strong foundation for a healthy marriage or long-term partnership

  • Improved communication, compersion and trust in non-monogamous or polyamorous relationships

  • Effective co-parenting while maintaining respect and cooperation

Ready to start your journey toward healing?